Showing posts with label grandparents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grandparents. Show all posts

Monday, April 3, 2017

Grandma Shirley



Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears


It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.


My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,


But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know.


My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.

Monday, June 20, 2016

Dementia Awareness


Grandma Shirley lives in a memory care unit where they do a lot of really neat activities with the residents. Last week a group of kids came visiting and they had a painting day, kinda like those wine painting parties, but I think minus the wine. ;)  The pictures are going to be displayed at a local grocery store next week to promote dementia awareness. This is Grandma with her beautiful painting.  She was always artistic and I am so glad that she still has the opportunity to express that side of herself. When I saw her and said I wanted to take her picture with her picture she didn't remember painting it, but she did in the moment.  And that is where people with dementia live, in the moment. So thankful that where she lives they understand that.

Thursday, May 26, 2016

A Life Remembered

This is my Dad, Grandpa Bob, who passed way before we were expecting it on May 15th.


Graduation picture, 1944.  Right after this he joined the US Marine Corps and fought in WWII.  He  traveled much of the Pacific aboard the U.S.S. Antietam. 


He was a 70 year member of the American Legion, He was also a long time member of the Shriner's (where he love the circus), Masons, other area clubs and an active member of his church for over 60 years where he served as an elder


My mom and dad celebrated their 60th anniversary on March 17th.


My mom has suffered demenia for about 18 years. Over the years they were both true role models of what it means to live out the marriage vows, in better and worse, in sickness and in health. 


They have not, however, parted in death. She doesn't belive he has died and tells us he's in town.  Is that one of the few gifts of dementia?


They just celebrated their birthdays the end of last month, he turned 90 and she turned 87.  Her birthday was the last day they saw each other.


We tried to sum up his life on two bulliten boards and one table.


He lived a big life, not sure how you show that in pictures and things.





His grandchildren, who were also the urn bearers.


This was the last morning I picked him up at his house for an appointment, there were geese with their little goslings in his front yard.  He wanted to stay at his house, where he had lived for over 60 years, until the fall. He didn't want to go into a nursing home and he didn't.


He was never a man of few words, if he thought it, he said it.  This was his water glass, which he as of late struggled to drink enough of.  It says, "Sounds like Bullshit to me."  Yep, I agree, that sums up the situation of last few weeks.


This is how we will remember him, Sweet Old Bob.

Tuesday, April 12, 2016

How Old Are You?

My mom's birthay is coming up this month.  I asked her if she knew how old she was going to be. She looked at me for a few seconds and said, "no" and then she added, "Does it matter?" No, no it doesn't Mom. It doesn't matter if you think you are 37, which she though she was last year, or 87, which she will be this year. I turned 50 this year, which is a weird age, your not young and your not old.  So as I float around in age limbo, I am just going to do whatever I want and not worry about if it is "age appropriate."  I am thankful that my mom, who doesn't even know who I am sometimes, is still teaching me life lessons and giving good advice.

Monday, April 13, 2015

Grandma Down

The middle of February, Grandma Shirley fell in the driveway on the ice getting bread out of the truck.  She hit her forehead and eye on something and broke the top of her arm bone completely off.  Normally this won't be a big deal, they would throw a couple of pins in the bone and have you do a little physical therapy.  Since surgery isn't an option for Grandma Shirley, an injury such as this is a life changer.  Finally, after weeks of chaos, we found a place that discourages being restrained in a wheel chair, sippy cups, diapers and bibs and encourages taking care of yourself and is locked so she can wander to her hearts content.  I did learn first hand that, unless you have long term care insurance and someone advocating on your behalf that knows the laws nursing homes are suppose to be following, you are pretty much doomed to sitting in a wheel chair, preferably so stoned you don't even know you are sitting there.  If you don't follow the stoner protocol, even if you aren't on state aid and are private pay, you are too much work and you are asked to leave.


We took these pictures the day we moved her into her new home.   This is our whole family minus two.  


Grandma and Grandpa with their grandkids.


Grandma and Dancer


She is about 65 miles away from us but we have made it down to visit and take her to appointment about twice a week.  Spark usually goes with me so I don't have to drive alone.  


Sunday, April 12, 2015

Happy Birthday Dancer!!


Dancer's 18th birthday was actually a couple of months ago but I am just now getting the pictures on.  It 


She always chooses cheese cake.  


Dr. Who dinner.  Fish fingers and custard and Adipose


Daleks


Cassandra pizza


Daleks pizza.


Birthday cake from Grandpa Bob and Grandma Shirley.  We were sad we didn't get a picture of Dancer with them, they were pulling out of the driveway just as we thought of it.  We thought, no biggie we will get one next time but now there won't be a next time.


Went to the movie "Into the Woods"  Not as good as the one with Bernadette Peters but very good none the less.

Friday, December 26, 2014

Christmas Day


Grandma and Grandpa came over and we had make your own pizza.  


Every year we put together a new puzzle.  Dancer's goal for Christmas was to watch musicals all day, but we didn't get to them until rather late so we only watched My Fair Lady and Chicago.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Thanksgiving


 We went out to eat for Thanksgiving and took these pictures before we left.  Now seeing how well they turned out I wish we hadn't had our coats on.


Dad and his parents.  I never realized how much he looks like his mom.





Dinner was good, Spark needed a nap afterwards.


Sunday, July 6, 2014

Two Birthday Celebrations


We celebrated Grandma Pat's birthday at a Mexican restaurant. 


Nikki, who shares the same birthday with Grandma, celebrated her 7th birthday with a can of wet dog food. 

Saturday, December 28, 2013

Christmas 2001

 
Playing with gifts.

 
This was a dancing tree with a face in it and it sang some Christmas song in a crazy voice.  I remember Spark couldn't watch it enough.

 
Spark (14 months), Cousin Kyle (9) and Dancer (4).



 
Playing 6-5-4.  She loved shaken' those dice then and still does!

Grandparent Christmas

 
Went to Grandpa Bob's and Grandma Shirley's last weekend to bring them plates and boxes of cookies along with a couple of gifts.  We ate Snicker's ice cream bars, helped Grandma put up a new puzzle, and ooh and aahed over their new beautiful windows.  Just before getting in the car to leave, we remembered should take a picture to commemorate the occasion. 
 
Grandma Pat and Grandpa Jerry came to our house the weekend before for a little Christmas cheer and no one thought to get a picture. 

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Thanksgiving

 
Ham dinner with enough food to serve at least 18 instead of six.  We ate so much everyone passed on dessert. 

 
Grandma Shirley dried the dishes and remembered where the silverware went even if the drawer got closed.  It was so fun to have her helping.

 
Green salad.  The actual name is, "The Green Salad Aunt Alberta From Missouri Use To Make."
 
1 package lime Jell-O
1 cup boiling water
8 oz. marshmallows
8 oz. cream cheese
1 can crushed pineapple
1 can evaporated milk
 
Dissolve the Jell-O in the boiling water.  After the Jell-O is dissolved, add the marshmallows when it still hot so they melt.   Add the cream cheese and stir until smooth, this sort of melts too.  Stir in the crushed pineapple.  Beat the evaporated milk until think and fold into the mixture.  Cool until set.